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Cheat, Cheater, Cheated

My second blog post tonight. Whoooo. 

But I have so much to say. Especially now that recently, not one, not two, but three of my friends have been cheated on this year. Two boys, and one girl. 

Let me tell you one thing: if you want me to hate you, and I mean really dislike you with the passion of a thousand suns, tell me that you cheated on your girlfriend/boyfriend. Tell me that you kissed someone else behind your significant other’s back. Tell me those things and I swear, I will hate you.

My first friend had his heart broken earlier in the year, and let me just tell you that that girl was a complete bitch. My friend also had her heart broken just a couple months ago, by someone who was my friend. I’m trying to be his friend now, but it’s hard. It really is. And now, my close friend had his heart broken just this week.


Why is the world full of them? Why do they exist?

The thing that just pisses me off about cheaters is that they have one person who loves them unconditionally. They love you, they don’t have to but they do, and yet you have the guts to do that to them?

How could you?

I know that in some cases, there are people who cheat because they feel that their significant other isn’t loving enough towards them. You might have that excuse, but please have the dignity to call it quits with that person before you cheat on them.

I’d rather have someone break up with me than cheat on me.

I try really hard not to ‘hate’ anybody for a particular reason. I really do. But cheating gets on my nerves more than anything else.

This is to all the cheaters. I am a friend whose friends are being hurt by the lot of you. Please stop. 

I don’t really want to be a major bitch towards you, especially when one of you is my friend. 

I really don’t. 

Going Down A New Road

It’s a sad, sad fact when you realize that you have no chance with the one you love. Like NO CHANCE AT ALL. As in ZERO ZIT NONE NADA. 

And I’m not talking about the times when you feel like you don’t have a chance because you’re ‘not pretty enough’ or ‘not smart enough’ or ‘enough-enough’, or because he’s ‘too pretty’ or ‘too popular’ or ‘out of his league’. No, there are different things.

Trust me; I’ve been down both the ‘not enough’ road and the ‘too whatever’ road. Countless times. But this time around, it’s different. It’s very different. It’s like…

It’s like you two could be perfect together, and you already have an indestructible friendship that would go for miles and miles on end, but you will never get past that ‘friend’ part.

Yes, this post is short, but I have said what needs to be said. For now. 

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